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Living overseas: ancestral graves and forebears back home

After moving to Australia, daily life is here, but ancestral graves and forebears are often still back home. These matters cannot be rushed — and living abroad is no reason to let them go.

Careful reading, never wishful thinking

Our principle for ancestral ground: these matters call for careful reading, never wishful thinking. They are not judged by quick wealth or fast results, but by a traditional survey on site, an analysis of the terrain and an assessment of the whole.

Not every grave needs to be changed, and we never recommend changes for a short-term boost.

What a survey looks at

  • The terrain of mountains and water
  • Orientation and layout
  • The present state of the grave
  • Family considerations
  • The long view

Ancestral ground surveys and burial-site selection depend on careful reading on site and are quoted per matter. From Australia, start by explaining the situation on WeChat; the master will judge whether anything is needed and how to arrange it.

Choosing ground for forebears

Burial-site selection means choosing auspicious ground and orientation for the departed — traditionally held to settle them and shelter later generations, a long-term family matter. Under home and family we consider home, company and ancestral ground together for long-horizon arrangements.

Rites that can be arranged from abroad

Rites for unborn children, karmic creditors and unsettled debts can be arranged remotely by family abroad, with a record sent afterwards. Lamp-lighting and blessing — often at the new year, a birthday or a turning point — can be arranged remotely too.

Rites are not granted on demand: the master first hears the matter, judges whether a rite is appropriate and which one; if it is not, the master will say so. Once the matter is clear the master quotes, and payment follows agreement.

Questions

Does an ancestral grave have to be changed?
No. Not every grave needs to be changed, and we never recommend changes for a short-term boost. Survey first, then decide.

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